Now here is an enduring author who is always popular at weddings, and for good reason. Avoiding cliché romantic tropes, means contemporary British author Wendy Cope's work resonates deeply with modern couples who are looking for words that sound upbeat and authentic as well as a little bit fun and conversational.

In this poem, A Vow, Cope acknowledges the ups and downs, (mostly ups), of married life and is a celebration of a genuine, long-lasting partnership built on foundations of mutual respect, admiration and laughter. Lines like: "You know what you’re taking on, my darling", say it all. It is sweet and heartfelt but not too saccharine, making it a solid ceremony reading choice for many couples.

The words are here, and we've also created a useful and pretty print and go download of this poem below..

I cannot promise never to be angry;
I cannot promise always to be kind.
You know what you are taking on, my darling –
It’s only at the start that love is blind.
And yet I’m still the one you want to be with
And you’re the one for me – of that I’m sure.
You are my closest friend, my favourite person,
The lover and the home I’ve waited for.
I cannot promise that I will deserve you
From this day on. I hope to pass that test.
I love you and I want to make you happy.
I promise I will do my very best.

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