I'm pretty new to this thing, I saw a group of people in a poly relationship and It just awoke something in me, now I'm a young pup trying to get into a circle (not even for hook ups or relationships, just to talk and hangout with like minded people) what advice do you have for an anti social man nearing his 30s?

Do you mean an actual group of people in your area, or something online? You say you're "anti-social," but you want to socialize?

We're a pretty good online community here. We started this board in 2009 and there are thousands of conversations in threads on every topic related to polyamory. You can start reading newer threads, or go back years by searching any topic you want with the search bar.