Dear Bunmi, I have been married for over six years and my wife and I had a great sex life.

At least, I thought so until I got the shock of my life, a few weeks ago.

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She confessed that though she loves me, she didn’t particularly care for the way we have had sex for years.

Dear Bunmi, as you can imagine, I’m still reeling from the shock!

What do I do now?

Gbenga, by e-mail.

Dear Gbenga,

Of course, you’re in shock at the idea that your wife not only dislikes sex with you, but has pretended she did all these years.

Now she’s finally found the courage to stop pretending, you can start turning things around.

Begin by re-assuring your wife how much you love her…ask her to be honest about what she likes and doesn’t like in bed.

In the meantime, get as much write-ups as you can about sex. Visit reputable book stores, you’ll be amazed at what you can pick up at these ‘bend and select’ book stands all over the place.

For all you know, this could be the start of a great love life for her – and an even better one for you! 

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